I needed to hear this

A Time to Receive and a Time to Give

It is important to know when we can give attention and when we need attention. Often we are inclined to give, give, and give without ever asking anything in return. We may think that this is a sign of generosity or even heroism. But it might be little else than a proud attitude that says: "I don't need help from others. I only want to give." When we keep giving without receiving we burn out quickly. Only when we pay careful attention to our own physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual needs can we be, and remain, joyful givers.

There is a time to give and a time to receive. We need equal time for both if we want to live healthy lives.

I really needed to hear these words from Henri Nouwen. The last several months I've come to a place of carefully limiting the amount of time in my life spent "giving." I've burnt out in the past from giving without having anywhere to receive. I've also learned that if I'm constantly giving I have no reserves left to walk through my own struggles, and usually end up in a puddle of tears, or sick in bed.

I love that we are designed to be reciprocal beings. Such a beautiful sense of balance designed into our very nature and into creation itself.